Every writer faces criticism. Whether it comes from an editor, a fellow author, or a reader, negative feedback can feel personal, especially when you've poured your heart into your work.
In this episode of In the Writer's Chair, Lana McAra welcomes Joanna Campbell Slan, a bestselling author of more than 80 fiction and nonfiction books, an Agatha Award finalist, and winner of the Daphne du Maurier Award for Literary Excellence.
Together, they discuss how writers can learn from criticism without letting someone else's opinion determine their creative future.
Why Criticism Feels So Personal
Joanna explains that many people associate being loved with being perfect. When someone points out weaknesses in our writing, it can feel like rejection rather than an opportunity to improve.
Recognizing the difference between criticism of your work and criticism of you is an important first step.
How to Recognize Constructive Feedback
Not every critique deserves equal weight.
Joanna shares experiences with harsh editors and reviewers, emphasizing the importance of considering someone's qualifications, perspective, and intentions before accepting their suggestions.
Because writing is subjective, personal preferences don't always indicate a problem with a manuscript.
Lana encourages writers to look for useful observations, particularly inconsistencies, missing details, or places where the story doesn't communicate what the author intended.
Turning Difficult Experiences Into Better Writing
Even painful criticism can become valuable creative material.
Joanna discusses drawing on difficult emotions to create more authentic characters. Lana shares how she records emotional experiences, including thoughts and physical sensations, in a journal to use when writing future scenes.
Sometimes difficult experiences provide the emotional depth a story needs.
Why Kindness Matters in Publishing
Both authors emphasize the importance of offering feedback with compassion.
Whether you're critiquing a manuscript, attending a writing conference, or interacting with readers, kindness builds relationships and strengthens the writing community.
Constructive criticism can encourage growth without discouraging someone's creative ambitions.
Keep Writing, No Matter What
One of Joanna's most memorable reminders is:
"I can't hand my future over to somebody else to decide."
Writers can listen, learn, and improve without giving others control over their creative direction.
The lesson is simple: Take what helps, leave what doesn't, and keep writing.
Watch the Full Conversation
Hear more from Joanna Campbell Slan, including her upcoming mysteries and collaborations, in the full episode of In the Writer's Chair.
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